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Charles Watson, MD posted a condolence

Sunday, October 28, 2012

Bob was a remarkable man whom I first knew as chief of psychiatry at BH where I, as a younger department chairman candidate and, later, chair, found him an unfailing resource. I valued his honesty, his wisdom, and his insight. I missed him when he left us and was sad to hear of his illness/passing. Bob made the world a better place. He seems to have been a leader in almost all phases of his professional career.

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Sue Rothman posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Dear Kristen,Kathryn, Bobby and Matthew, I was saddened to read of your dad's death in the Harrisburg Patriot. Please accept my sympathy and prayers. I will let Helen Shultz know-she is still at Providence Place in Dover, PA - turned 99 on August 31st. Doing amazingly well. Sincerely, Sue Rothman (your mom and I were in the Junior League Provisional class together).

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Aine Cuddihy posted a condolence

Monday, October 22, 2012

While I only met Robert briefly, I do have the pleasure of knowing his son Bobby. Robert must have been very proud of the kind, adventurous, perceptive son he raised. My thoughts are with Bobby and his family at this time. Aine

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Michael J. Soltys posted a condolence

Sunday, October 21, 2012

My wife, two daughters and I had the good fortune of spending a few summer days with Dr. Bob and my mother, Barbara, in Southold a few years ago. It was our first meeting and Bob's friendly warmth and easy laughter couldn't have been more welcoming. No sooner had we arrived than Bob whisked us off to explore his favorite haunts along the North Fork, pointing out places of interest, regaling us with local history and family tales, delighting the kids with a trip to the candy store. Sharing a great fondness for the sea, he led us on explorations of the coves and inlets around the Bay, treks from the shoreline near Daly Lane (joining us for a midday swim) to the tip of Orient Point (where his recitation of Plum Island mysteries fascinated us). Still not even breaking a sweat, he added on a hike of the Mashomack Preserve's wildlife trails for good measure. Though the rest of our group was tuckered out at the end, if Bob had proposed a final bike ride over to the marina to check on his sailboat (which would not have surprised me in the least), I would have gladly joined him. With that energy level and bursting activity schedule, clearly he was my kind of guy! During occasional stationary periods like mealtime breaks, Bob was as openly enthusiastic to learn about our family as he was to tell us wonderful stories about his children. In his home on Long Island the many great photos that cover all the walls along with the special mementos that adorn shelves and mantle, reflect his genuine pride in his family, his affection for the area and his spirit of adventure. The man's generosity, passion for life and sense of humor were truly energizing, and no doubt Bob's memory will continue to inspire those lucky enough to have known him.

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Joe Tober posted a condolence

Sunday, October 21, 2012

I have known Bob since Kindergarten days at St.Catherine's in Pelham. Whenever there were processions or ceremonies, we were always paired together. We belonged to Cub Scouts, Boy Scouts and many other activities around Pelham. After graduating from St. Catherine's, Bob went to Pelham and I went to Stepinac. We saw each other over those four years but then lost touch until the 30th reunion in 1983. My wife, Carol Kane a classmate of Bob's, attended that reunion and caught up with the past 30 years. Several classmates of Bob's were also graduates of St. Catherine's. I was deeply saddened to learn of Bob's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

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Brandon Paulson posted a condolence

Sunday, October 21, 2012

I will always remember the laughter I shared with Dr. Daly and Bobby while watching the Patriots beat the Dolphins when the Dalys visited Texas one Christmas. The world has lost one of its most fun people, and he will be greatly missed.

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Lulu Hallenbeck posted a condolence

Sunday, October 21, 2012

While I did not know Bob Daly, I do know his Katie. He must've been wonderful and fun because he has wonderful daughter who brings such delight to everywhere she goes. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family.

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Laura Zukerman posted a condolence

Sunday, October 21, 2012

It was my great privilege to get to know Dr. Bob. I knew him as a man of tremendous physical energy and indomitable spirit, a deep and querying humanity and intellect, and an infectious sense of humor that really always made me join him in a deep-belly laugh. The times we had with Dr. Bob in Maine and at 770 with Sarah and Bobby (and when we were lucky, with all of you) were among the most jolly and satisfying family times that those houses have ever seen - Dr. Bob had just that impact on a room. I will miss him greatly. Love, Laura

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Franny Weller posted a condolence

Sunday, October 21, 2012

To Barbara, Eve, and all Bob's loved ones, My husband Frank and I loved Bob as a highschool classmate, and treasured him more with every meeting since. Thanksgiving eve of our freshman year in college, Bob happened by my house along with a bunch of classmates looking to reconnect. As a sort of one-upmanship developed about all-nighters and assorted freshman exploits, Bob elicited many hoots by declaring that at Holy Cross lights went out at eleven p.m. Unfazed, he just shrugged: "By then I'm tired anyway." No pretense at phony sophistication. Sane. Common sense-able. Already, a person seeming supremely comfortable in his own skin. As years rolled by, the greater world found him distinguished, but we knew that already. He was still our friend Bob, the funny, kind, spontaneous soul we'd always loved--though beneath his exuberance were flickers of remarkable serenity probably born of faith, pain, and wisdom. He was as clearly genuine as anyone we've ever known. How wonderful that his steadiness, compassion, intelligence, and wit enabled him to help so many other people! Bob carried such a sense of life-still-to-be-lived that he made us feel younger and more hopeful. When we'd been with him, we'd come home and smile for days. It's hard to grasp that he's not still "seizing the day." We mourn the days he's lost, and days with him lost for all of you. Since grief is partly selfish, we feel diminished by his passing. May your funny, rich, happy memories prevail. We will cherish ours, and always love him--and always wish you well.

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Jonathan Olmsted posted a condolence

Sunday, October 21, 2012

A great guy, talented runner, tennis player, skier, sailor and singer. We will miss his colorful stories and lively humor!

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George and Jean Meek posted a condolence

Saturday, October 20, 2012

We remember "Dingle" fondly from Pelham Memorial High School, from our classes, especially Spanish. George ran track with him with Coach Dick Lacey. We greatly enjoyed visiting with him at our various reunions of the Class of '53. He lives in all our memories.

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Alison & Laura posted a condolence

Saturday, October 20, 2012

Uncle Bob's sailing adventure... The day before Kerry Daly was getting married, Uncle Bob offered to take Laura and I sailing. Since we both love boats, we figured why not this will be fun. So we gathered our sweatshirts and hopped in Uncle Bob's car to head to the marina. We get to the dock and the dingy was deflated (should have been sign one to not go sailing), Uncle Bob said 'No problem, i got a pump.' He pumped up the dingy and jumped in and realized it was full of water (sign 2), so he proceeded to bail out all the water and had us all climb in and acting like this is all normal. Uncle Bob proceeds to row, Barbara, Laura and I out to the boat. He tells Barbara to do this that and the other thing on the boat. So we climb on board only to realize we have no clue what Uncle Bob wants us to do (sign 3), so we sit down and wait for him to return with Aunt Eve and her son, Timmy. He climbs on board and tells Laura and I we are in the way and if we could sit on the bow of the boat that would be great. Laura and I listen. So we finally set sail and Laura and I are talking away, not paying attention to what is happening in the back until we hear 'move to the other side, QUICK' Laura and i frantically dive across the boat (sign 4) and resume our conversation as Uncle Bob seemed to have everything under control. We are talking away when we realize that our feet are getting closer and closer to the water and that the whole boat is keeling to one side. We look back and chaos has unleashed, Uncle Bob is frantically yelling directions at Timmy, who by now is in a full on sweat, to try to get the boat back to an upright position so we don't cap size. Laura and i are hanging on for dear life. We finally get to an upright position and Uncle Bob yells at Laura and I to come back to the back and sit down and that we are motoring in. Not much is said, minus wow didn't realize how windy it was, we probably shouldn't be sailing, that was a close one. We get back to the marine, anchor, and Uncle Bob pops open a beer and said, now that was fun.

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Elisabeth Diana posted a condolence

Saturday, October 20, 2012

I had the luck of getting to know the Daly clan when Bobby and I were on the squash team together in college. We traveled to Boston our freshman year for a competition, where Dr. Daly and the rest of the family came to watch Bobby play. My first reaction was how much alike Dr. Daly and Bobby were - so warm, cheerful and always asking me questions about everything. My second reaction was how they both had the same smile. Years later when he came to San Francisco, Dr. Daly visited Bobby, me and our friends as we were sitting in a park, and Dr. Daly recalled the exact squash games I had played in Boston, how they had gone, etc. It was amazing how great his memory and his interest he took in all of Bobby's friends was. I think everyone lit up around him at all times.

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Laura Forlano posted a condolence

Saturday, October 20, 2012

Thinking of Kristen, CC, Morrissey and all of the Daly siblings, family and friends today. Jose' and I were very sorry to hear about Bob's passing. We were only able to meet Bob a few times but three things come to mind from the trip to Israel for Gali's wedding: Bob's tremendous sense of humor, his love for sports and the pride that he took in his family. Bob was a riot. We were laughing from the minute we left the airport and I knew that we were in for a fun week. Bob wanted to buy a hookah pipe or something like that for a friend. This became a running joke. By the time we got the the hotel, we were jet lagged and in stitches. Bob's passion for sports was clear as he plugged along in the wedding marathon and told us about his knee surgeries and how he couldn't wait to get back to the slopes in the winter with his skiing buddies. He was so happy about Kristen and CC's move to Boulder. Bob gave a great speech at the rehearsal dinner and his pride for Kristen and his family was self-evident. On the way over to Gali's wedding in the van, we were joking about all kinds of medical ailments until we got to the subject of my nut allergy. I'm not sure why this was so funny but something Bob said kicked of a round of hysterics and we were laughing until we cried all the way to the wedding.

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Gali Einav posted a condolence

Saturday, October 20, 2012

One really cant talk about Bob in the past tense. For me, he was, and will always be, the most alive, funny, fun loving person I knew and one of my favorite people in the world. Ever since I met Kristen at Columbia in the Fall of 2000 and we became quick friends, so many of my experiences living in NY (and in Israel) were linked to Bob, Kristen and all of you. You have become my family away from home. I have always felt very fortunate for that. I wanted to share with you a few of my favorite memories with Bob. I will never forget the Easter I spent with you at Southold and Bob got me my own Easter card, the first and only one I have (not to mention my first marshmallow peep) Kristens and CCs wedding. Morning of rehearsal dinner. We are all out on the boat. Bob the only one wearing a life vest..Sea a little choppy but everyone is in a good mood. Bob steering with much confidence, which really made me feel better. That evening, at the rehearsal dinner, Bob admitted that there was a severe storm warning that day and it was super dangerous to sail that day. But he didnt want to spoil the fun for the guests He was happy (and relieved) he didnt kill us all Bob giving the funniest speech at the dinner. I dont remember exactly what he said but just that I laughed so hard I cried. Bob had the ability to do that time after time. Bob dancing and lip syncing with the whole family to "Youre the one that I want", from Grease. Welcoming CC into the family. Levi and I were both so happy that Bob came with Kristen to our wedding in Israel. Of course he made a huge ,unforgettable mark on all guests. Leaving for the rehearsal dinner. Entrance to the Brown hotel. Bob leaning on a live Cactus (which he thought was dcor-) I still remember the tears in my eyes from that laugh..( he was in stitches too..) Rehearsal dinner standing up in my parents living room, giving the funniest speech and singing in honor of all the Irish guests.. Bus to Jerusalem after a full day of touring ( Im nearly passed out) Bob with the microphone singing again Last day, right before Kristen and Bob left for the States. We were at Masada. Bob and I took the Cable car down (the others hiked down the mountain) we had 30 minutes to ourselves, sitting at the visitors center. Bob bought a few bags of potato chips and we sat and ate and talked. He told me how he was surprised by Israel, the history at Masada, which he really enjoyed and discovering Tel Aviv as a resort town.. How he was glad he came. So was I. He talked about the whole family. How excited he was for Kristen and CCs move to Boulder. Katies life in LA. Bobby and Sarah busy schedules. Matts next career move. One never knows when there will be a last memory. I have to say that those 30 minutes eating potato chips (and some other junk food ..) were one of my favorite moments of that trip. Thanks Bob for making it so much fun and a real pleasure to be around you. My memories of you are filled with warmth, adventure and laughter, laughter and some more laughter. Sending my love to all of you, Gali

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Irene DeBlasio posted a condolence

Saturday, October 20, 2012

I'm heartbroken about losing Bob -- another classmate from our PMHS Class of 1953. He was like a big brother to me. I remember a time when I was attending Mass at St. Catherine's and Bob was serving as an altar boy to Father Perrotta. As I approached the altar to receive Communion, Father leaned forward to place the wafer on my tongue and Bob (hiding behind the priest's shoulder) stuck out his tongue. I laughed so hard that I thought I would be excommunicated on the spot. I'll miss his gentle easygoing spirit, his deep understanding and caring nature, his laughter and his marvelous athletic form. I feel blessed to have had his as a friend. My very deepest sympathy to his beautiful family and to Barbara. We've all lost a little piece of our hearts. Until we meet again.

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Joe Hoehlein posted a condolence

Saturday, October 20, 2012

Bob was a classmate at Pelham High and was the kind of friend you look for. He was smart, funny and loyal and a heck of an athlete. Not only did he star on our track team, but he was a darn good half back with an unusual gait that would make opponents look silly as they tried to tackle him and missed. He was at our reunion in Mystic in 2010 but it was at our previous reunion on the Cape in 2008 that I spent some time with him on a ferry ride to Nantucket. Our group was to tour the island, but Bob was there to meet a wonderful lady named Barbara Griffin. He had told me about her and I could see by the way he spoke that she was special to him. Bob and I shared something in common. We both had lost our loving wives after long illnesses and were getting on with out lives. I was happy for my dear friend that he had found a new soul mate. I'm saddened by his passing but grateful to have know such a wonderful human being.

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Alexandra Zukerman posted a condolence

Saturday, October 20, 2012

Dr. Daly had a gift for pointing-out, for saying-- not so, but words that cured. That thing that could not be said. He said that thing! He had fears, and scraped yours onto his plate. "Do you know how few people actually FEEL?" he once said of the winnowing lot. "Actually have FEELINGS?" The living world has lost one of its most important advocates. He was a very special person, who I have no doubt saved many people's lives. Nowhere was life more affirmed than in his presence. My heart goes out to your family whose love for him could not be surpassed.

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Kerry Daly Ruggi posted a condolence

Saturday, October 20, 2012

On my maiden voyage to Block Island, my dad passed along the news that Uncle Bob, Kristen, and Katie would be arriving by ferry the following morning the girls were participating in the Block Island Triathlon. I had always been inspired by the miraculous feats the Daly Cousins continued to tackle (Im pretty sure for Kristens "bachelorette", she and Katie ran across all of South America or India or Antarctica in 13 days, barefoot, with one PowerBar to share). Somehow, after an 8-hour sail and tight sleeping quarters, I was convinced by the easy-breezy "you can do it" Bobby Daly Force to participate in my first triathlon. Uncle Bob rented me a bike and sent me on my way, huffing and puffing to drop it off in town for the final leg of the race. Two hours and forty five minutes later (seven mile beach run??), my dad greeted me at the finish line. Kristen, Katie and Uncle Bob were already on the ferry back to the mainland, having finished a full hour before me. They had grabbed their trophies for fastest and best looking, and were off to their next adventure. Uncle Bob made sure to document each of our finish times along with photos of the race, still hanging in Lotties bathroom in Southold today. I may not always be able to keep up with my cousins, but I continue to be inspired to try anything to be part of the excitement and comedy (blisters?) that comes along with an Uncle Bob adventure. Sparky, Hobson, Mcduff, Squiggy, and Daisy are so excited to greet him at the gates, and Im sure hes got a clenched jaw, a few high squeals and low woofs followed by belly rubs for all the Daly dogs in heaven.

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Dan Barabas posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

One of my most fond memories of Bob's way with words is of catching up with him a couple of summers ago in Southold, when Marty and Eve's dog Oreo came by. He explained to me that Oreo was "some kind of Himalayan Mountain dog." In fact, Oreo is a Portugese Water Dog, but it really made no difference due to the enthusiasm with which he spoke. He was a classic individual, and reading his obituary made me realize what a full life he led, unfortunately ending too soon. RIP.

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Elisabeth Lella posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

Dear Kristen, Katie, Bobby and Matthew, I am so very sorry to hear of your fatherÊ¼s death. Such a thing is a heavy blow at any time, moreso when it comes so suddenly just when the possibility of treatment for his illness looked so hopeful and positive. I wish there was something beyond words that I could do for you in this time of grief. (There never is - unfortunately.) I first knew your mother in September 1959 when we both started Manhattanville and then we were roommates and excellent friends for the rest of our college years. We corresponded and occasionally saw each other over the years. I had the pleasure of meeting your Dad in London in the Spring of 1972 when he and your mother were on their honeymoon. They called us and we had a lovely visit and dinner together. It was, and always has been, a delight to have known him. Although we did not see each other often for some years, whenever we did it was a lovely and easy relationship to continue. He had an ability to pick up the strands of the current time and carry forward in conversation and discussion on just about any subject. We saw him a bit more often once Alexandra met Ralph and there were times to celebrate and get together at one home or another. He calmed the waters of AlexandraÊ¼s wedding day! Ralph was not keen on giving her any sort of relaxation pill and she was keen on having one, so your Dad took things into his own hand and delivered a lovely little potion of something to take the edge off her nerves right to the hotel. We had a lovely and relaxing day thanks to him! Over the years, I was kept abreast of the Daly news - the birth of each of you, the move from Harrisburg to Darien, picking the house in Darien. It was delightful. Each of you was a treasure to your parents. You surely know that. The last time I saw your Dad was at dinner at AlexandraÊ¼s in May 2010 - with Kristen, and the best little granddaughter ever born! I am sure that you know how much he loved her. Matthew was also there, but I suspect that Morrissey Joyce Legator was the main attraction! We had such a lovely visit that night that we vowed to do it each time I went to New York. I am sorry that this will not happen again with Bob present. I hope that each of you in your own way will find some comforting thought of your Dad to lessen the pain of his loss. I am confident that you will know how to comfort each other, too. Even though the loss is forever, I hope that time to heal will also be time to polish the happy memories into gems of everlasting comfort. You will all be in my prayers and my thoughts. My heartfelt sympathies to each of you. Elisabeth

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Susan Monk posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

I last saw Dr. Daly in August of this year. As always, it was good to see him. I have known him for 24 years through Park City Partial Hospital and Bridgeport Hospital. His presence will sadly be missed.

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Kim Boswell posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

I first met Dr. Daly when I was living with Katie at Stanford. Every memory I have of him brings the biggest smile to my face. His joy of life was so endearing and his sense of humor was infectious. He spoke without a filter and that gave us a glimpse into his open mind and generous heart. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Kim & Joe

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Courtney Murphy Hewson posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

When with Dr. Daly, you always knew that you were having the best time around. Whether it was running to keep up with him on the streets of New York City (on the way to The Milrose Games), or sailing to Block Island, it was always an adventure. His sense of humour, openness to experience and lack of pretense made everything exciting. As a father and friend, he was confidence and encouragement personified. He was supportive and encouraging of his children. They are amazing and wonderful people in their own ways and he showed them how to live life to its fullest. And no one could wear a straw hat with a sarong better than Dr. Bob.

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Little david posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

Uncle Bob taught me a very valuable lesson on my first sailing trip to Block Island at age 10: When everyone at the table orders burgers- apparently it is obnoxious to order the Surf & Turf! To this day I steer clear of Surf & Turf at all times. Years later on a ski trip to South Lake Tahoe, I convinced Uncle Bob to try the $9.95 Prime Rib special at the Lakeside Casino restaurant. I had acquired some 2 for 1 coupons, so dinner for 6 people was $30! Uncle Bob said it was the best deal he had ever seen, and I think it made up for my Surf & Turf faux pas. I will always remember the amazing adventures that I shared with Uncle Bob. From sailing trips to ski trips, Uncle Bob led me on many exciting travels that I will never forget. Somehow he was able to convince my parents to let me skip school in 5th grade to ski the last day of Okemos season with Bobby and Matt. My first ever international experience was to Quebec to ski with Uncle Bob. An afternoon in Southold often led to an impromptu excursion to the ocean or up the creek armed with crab nets. Uncle Bobs love for adventure assured us all that if his car pulled into Grammys house, the next day was not going to be dull.

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Bob Mahar posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

The Bob I knew Bob was about loving family, friends,life, the outdoors and the sports played there. I remember he would fequently stop on a trail during skiig to revel in the scenery and beauty of the moment. He loved dogs. No matter where, when he came upon one, he always stopped for a chat. Bob was a philospher and loved tweaking friends at gatherings with some philosopical question about life and living it. Bob also was an optimist. No better exercise of this was his sailing trips. He always assumed each would be a perfect sail- only to have some major problem or disaster strike during the trip. Even so on the next he always assumed that would be perfect. I'll miss him, his company and those sails. Bob Mahar

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Katharine Ugeux Lewis posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

Kristen first introduced me to Bob in the late 1990s. Being a fresh-faced immigrant from darkest West Wales, he unsurprisingly left a lasting impression! From the first moment, Bob was so incredibly welcoming, kind and inclusive. To me he was always a wonderful mixture of boundless energy, hilariousness, insight and thought-provoking-ness (I know these are made-up-words but what the heck!). If Bob was ever a character in a book, I thought, the book would be on the NYT's best-seller list! Who else would take us to a Petting Zoo, Sailing and Wine-tasting within the space of a few hours? Who else would make me laugh so much that I can't breathe (whilst eating giant radishes in a Jerusalem souk), and in the next sentence sagely tell us that "family is the most important thing".

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Pat Allegra posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

I did not know Bob very well but one thing will stay impressed in my mind as his defining memory: his amazing zest for life!He really made the best out of his life on earth and that is an inspiration for all of us.

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James Caspers posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

When my brother, Stephen, and I first moved to Pelham, the back yard of our house at 526 Pelhamdale touched the Daly's back yard. We were fortunate to be able to know this remarkable family first hand. Knowing them well? Everybody in Pelham knew Bobby AKA "Dingle" well; in fact, most everyone in Pelham knew the entire family pretty well. Bob posesed a unique personal style that genuinely linked him to anyone he encountered. I remember Bob, Sid Janzen with his wife visiting Bill Ryan and me at a restaurant we were working in Hawaii during the early 60s, and the impact Bob on the whole crew was memorable.Someone once said, "pardon my redundancy"; but I have to say, everything Bob Daly did was memorable! Jimmy Caspers

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William Bauer posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

I last saw Bob at our High School re-union in June 2010 in Mystic,CT. He was the same great person he always had been. Singing may not have been his forte but he was thee best there is at everything else including the game of life. I am proud to have known him. Bill Bauer

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Murray Morrison, MD posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

Bob was a frindly and beloved colleague. We would often cross paths in the hallways of Bridgeport Hospital I, an orthopaedist and he, a psychiatrist,would laugh or commisurate about hospital politics. He was a real person, easy to talk to and to ask advice from. Pleasant memories..

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Gwen (Williams) Finnegan posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

To Kristen, Katie, Bobby and Matt - Here are some memories I have of your Dad (that I will NEVER forget). Most of them are, of course, from the four summers that I spent with your family. My first impression of your Dad was that he was so funny. His infectious laugh and that grin (I know you know which one I mean) were some of his trademarks. When he cracked a joke, he made himself laugh. And - he would make fun of himself too. I remember being impressed with how supportive he was of his kids. He was so positive in his support! "That's great, Kristen", "Good Job, Kate!", "Bobby, that's awesome" , "Matt, that was really good"... He had to be one of his kids' biggest cheerleaders! I don't know if you recall or not how afraid of bugs your Mom was. Every time a big bug or spider got in the house she would yell, "Bob, Bob" and no matter where your Dad was in the house he would come and get that bug or spider out of the house. He certainly helped balance your Mom (and I know she helped balance him). Remember that green Cadillac that he loved to drive? When I would go out at night, he always wanted me to drive it. Believe it or not, I often chose to take the station wagon. :) Though I do remember driving the green Cadillac sometimes too. You could hear it coming from a few blocks away... This was a testament to the kind of man he was. Your Dad didn't need to drive a brand new car to feel good about himself. Besides, I think he really did love that car! Your Dad also worked a lot. He worked hard to support his family. He played hard too and was a very good tennis player. And - of course, he loved sailing and spending time in Southhold. Your Dad was a man of faith too. I am sure he found peace in his final days and I'm sure he'll be very welcomed into his eternal life with God. I bet your Mom has been waiting for him.

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Custis and Kit McNeilly posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

Bob, we will miss you so much. esp if we ever get out to Southold again. Love, Mick and Kit McNeilly

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CC Lagator posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

Bob would constantly say things that made it impossible to determine whether he meant to be intentionally or unintentionally funny. These often would come in the form of Freudian Slips that provided insight into what was running through his head. Since his diet consisted mainly of meat and potatoes his entire life, you would hear him accidentally (but kind of accurately) refer to things like his monthly 'Boys Night Out' with friends as "Steak Night Out." But the funniest was definitely the time when he was trying to describe a steak restaurant in our neighborhood in NYC and asking if we had ever been there (myself and his vegetarian daughter. I had, she hadn't.) He couldn't remember the name but we finally figured out he meant the 'Old Homestead.' When Kristen asked where he had heard so much about it Bob replied: "I read about it in the Meat section of the New York Times" We were unaware that meat had finally gotten its own section in the New York Times.

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Charles J Morgan MD posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

Bob was a friend, mentor and colleague. His sense of humor and support as I transitioned into the role of Chairman will be always treasured. My condolences to his family. Charles J Morgan MD Chairman, Dept. of Psychiatry Bridgeport Hospital

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Howard Harinstein posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

One of my biggest supporters at Park City Hospital and Bridgeport Hospital. A man who knew a great deal about everything and was not afraid to share his opinion and thoughts. Always a positive influence. He will be missed

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Kerry Daly Ruggi posted a condolence

Friday, October 19, 2012

"What is it, butta?" (butter) "Put a little MUSCLE into it!!" - Uncle Bob, heckling cousin Kevin McGrath (the Honorable) while he tried to scoop enough vanilla ice cream to satisfy what Uncle Bob considered the 'right' amount of a la mode for his pie. (2009-ish, Southold, Aunt Eve's dining room table). Kevin's live impersonation is even better.

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Nicholas Dainiak, MD, FACP, Chairman, Department of Medicine, Bridgeport Hospital posted a condolence

Thursday, October 18, 2012

Bob was an inspiration to his fellow Chairs at Bridgport Hospital. His sharp wit, keen insight, competitive mind and infectious laughter spurred all to achieve at a higher level. His unique take on events of the day and thoughtful radicalism were a constant source of grist for debate among all who took the time to listen. My condolences to all who shared in his love.

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David Chess posted a condolence

Thursday, October 18, 2012

Although I have not seen Bob for several years, his guidance when I was Chief Resident of Medicine at Bridgeport Hospital in 1984 was exceptional. He taught a sense of balance - kindness, clarity of thought and humor. He was an important mentor and I am thankful for his generosity of heart.

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bob stanton posted a condolence

Thursday, October 18, 2012

Bob was a great colleague and friend. We shared many laughs together, and had some memorable tennis matches. Through his efforts over the years I have a large practice of Darien pts, all of whom knew Bob and participated in his many sporting activities. He provided great help to me personally and was a wonderful resource for some family issues many years ago. I will always have great memories of his absolute enthusiasm for life every day.

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Charles Watson, MD posted a condolence

Friday, October 28, 2011

Bob was a remarkable man whom I first knew as chief of psychiatry at BH where I, as a younger department chairman candidate and, later, chair, found him an unfailing resource. I valued his honesty, his wisdom, and his insight. I missed him when he left us and was sad to hear of his illness/passing. Bob made the world a better place. He seems to have been a leader in almost all phases of his professional career.

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Sue Rothman posted a condolence

Monday, October 24, 2011

Dear Kristen,Kathryn, Bobby and Matthew, I was saddened to read of your dad's death in the Harrisburg Patriot. Please accept my sympathy and prayers. I will let Helen Shultz know-she is still at Providence Place in Dover, PA - turned 99 on August 31st. Doing amazingly well. Sincerely, Sue Rothman (your mom and I were in the Junior League Provisional class together).

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Aine Cuddihy posted a condolence

Saturday, October 22, 2011

While I only met Robert briefly, I do have the pleasure of knowing his son Bobby. Robert must have been very proud of the kind, adventurous, perceptive son he raised. My thoughts are with Bobby and his family at this time. Aine

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Franny Weller posted a condolence

Friday, October 21, 2011

To Barbara, Eve, and all Bob's loved ones, My husband Frank and I loved Bob as a highschool classmate, and treasured him more with every meeting since. Thanksgiving eve of our freshman year in college, Bob happened by my house along with a bunch of classmates looking to reconnect. As a sort of one-upmanship developed about all-nighters and assorted freshman exploits, Bob elicited many hoots by declaring that at Holy Cross lights went out at eleven p.m. Unfazed, he just shrugged: "By then I'm tired anyway." No pretense at phony sophistication. Sane. Common sense-able. Already, a person seeming supremely comfortable in his own skin. As years rolled by, the greater world found him distinguished, but we knew that already. He was still our friend Bob, the funny, kind, spontaneous soul we'd always loved--though beneath his exuberance were flickers of remarkable serenity probably born of faith, pain, and wisdom. He was as clearly genuine as anyone we've ever known. How wonderful that his steadiness, compassion, intelligence, and wit enabled him to help so many other people! Bob carried such a sense of life-still-to-be-lived that he made us feel younger and more hopeful. When we'd been with him, we'd come home and smile for days. It's hard to grasp that he's not still "seizing the day." We mourn the days he's lost, and days with him lost for all of you. Since grief is partly selfish, we feel diminished by his passing. May your funny, rich, happy memories prevail. We will cherish ours, and always love him--and always wish you well.

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Laura Zukerman posted a condolence

Friday, October 21, 2011

It was my great privilege to get to know Dr. Bob. I knew him as a man of tremendous physical energy and indomitable spirit, a deep and querying humanity and intellect, and an infectious sense of humor that really always made me join him in a deep-belly laugh. The times we had with Dr. Bob in Maine and at 770 with Sarah and Bobby (and when we were lucky, with all of you) were among the most jolly and satisfying family times that those houses have ever seen - Dr. Bob had just that impact on a room. I will miss him greatly. Love, Laura

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Lulu Hallenbeck posted a condolence

Friday, October 21, 2011

While I did not know Bob Daly, I do know his Katie. He must've been wonderful and fun because he has wonderful daughter who brings such delight to everywhere she goes. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family.

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Brandon Paulson posted a condolence

Friday, October 21, 2011

I will always remember the laughter I shared with Dr. Daly and Bobby while watching the Patriots beat the Dolphins when the Dalys visited Texas one Christmas. The world has lost one of its most fun people, and he will be greatly missed.

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Joe Tober posted a condolence

Friday, October 21, 2011

I have known Bob since Kindergarten days at St.Catherine's in Pelham. Whenever there were processions or ceremonies, we were always paired together. We belonged to Cub Scouts, Boy Scouts and many other activities around Pelham. After graduating from St. Catherine's, Bob went to Pelham and I went to Stepinac. We saw each other over those four years but then lost touch until the 30th reunion in 1983. My wife, Carol Kane a classmate of Bob's, attended that reunion and caught up with the past 30 years. Several classmates of Bob's were also graduates of St. Catherine's. I was deeply saddened to learn of Bob's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

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Michael J. Soltys posted a condolence

Friday, October 21, 2011

My wife, two daughters and I had the good fortune of spending a few summer days with Dr. Bob and my mother, Barbara, in Southold a few years ago. It was our first meeting and Bob's friendly warmth and easy laughter couldn't have been more welcoming. No sooner had we arrived than Bob whisked us off to explore his favorite haunts along the North Fork, pointing out places of interest, regaling us with local history and family tales, delighting the kids with a trip to the candy store. Sharing a great fondness for the sea, he led us on explorations of the coves and inlets around the Bay, treks from the shoreline near Daly Lane (joining us for a midday swim) to the tip of Orient Point (where his recitation of Plum Island mysteries fascinated us). Still not even breaking a sweat, he added on a hike of the Mashomack Preserve's wildlife trails for good measure. Though the rest of our group was tuckered out at the end, if Bob had proposed a final bike ride over to the marina to check on his sailboat (which would not have surprised me in the least), I would have gladly joined him. With that energy level and bursting activity schedule, clearly he was my kind of guy! During occasional stationary periods like mealtime breaks, Bob was as openly enthusiastic to learn about our family as he was to tell us wonderful stories about his children. In his home on Long Island the many great photos that cover all the walls along with the special mementos that adorn shelves and mantle, reflect his genuine pride in his family, his affection for the area and his spirit of adventure. The man's generosity, passion for life and sense of humor were truly energizing, and no doubt Bob's memory will continue to inspire those lucky enough to have known him.

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Kerry Daly Ruggi posted a condolence

Thursday, October 20, 2011

On my maiden voyage to Block Island, my dad passed along the news that Uncle Bob, Kristen, and Katie would be arriving by ferry the following morning the girls were participating in the Block Island Triathlon. I had always been inspired by the miraculous feats the Daly Cousins continued to tackle (Im pretty sure for Kristens "bachelorette", she and Katie ran across all of South America or India or Antarctica in 13 days, barefoot, with one PowerBar to share). Somehow, after an 8-hour sail and tight sleeping quarters, I was convinced by the easy-breezy "you can do it" Bobby Daly Force to participate in my first triathlon. Uncle Bob rented me a bike and sent me on my way, huffing and puffing to drop it off in town for the final leg of the race. Two hours and forty five minutes later (seven mile beach run??), my dad greeted me at the finish line. Kristen, Katie and Uncle Bob were already on the ferry back to the mainland, having finished a full hour before me. They had grabbed their trophies for fastest and best looking, and were off to their next adventure. Uncle Bob made sure to document each of our finish times along with photos of the race, still hanging in Lotties bathroom in Southold today. I may not always be able to keep up with my cousins, but I continue to be inspired to try anything to be part of the excitement and comedy (blisters?) that comes along with an Uncle Bob adventure. Sparky, Hobson, Mcduff, Squiggy, and Daisy are so excited to greet him at the gates, and Im sure hes got a clenched jaw, a few high squeals and low woofs followed by belly rubs for all the Daly dogs in heaven.

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Alexandra Zukerman posted a condolence

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Dr. Daly had a gift for pointing-out, for saying-- not so, but words that cured. That thing that could not be said. He said that thing! He had fears, and scraped yours onto his plate. "Do you know how few people actually FEEL?" he once said of the winnowing lot. "Actually have FEELINGS?" The living world has lost one of its most important advocates. He was a very special person, who I have no doubt saved many people's lives. Nowhere was life more affirmed than in his presence. My heart goes out to your family whose love for him could not be surpassed.

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Joe Hoehlein posted a condolence

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Bob was a classmate at Pelham High and was the kind of friend you look for. He was smart, funny and loyal and a heck of an athlete. Not only did he star on our track team, but he was a darn good half back with an unusual gait that would make opponents look silly as they tried to tackle him and missed. He was at our reunion in Mystic in 2010 but it was at our previous reunion on the Cape in 2008 that I spent some time with him on a ferry ride to Nantucket. Our group was to tour the island, but Bob was there to meet a wonderful lady named Barbara Griffin. He had told me about her and I could see by the way he spoke that she was special to him. Bob and I shared something in common. We both had lost our loving wives after long illnesses and were getting on with out lives. I was happy for my dear friend that he had found a new soul mate. I'm saddened by his passing but grateful to have know such a wonderful human being.

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Irene DeBlasio posted a condolence

Thursday, October 20, 2011

I'm heartbroken about losing Bob -- another classmate from our PMHS Class of 1953. He was like a big brother to me. I remember a time when I was attending Mass at St. Catherine's and Bob was serving as an altar boy to Father Perrotta. As I approached the altar to receive Communion, Father leaned forward to place the wafer on my tongue and Bob (hiding behind the priest's shoulder) stuck out his tongue. I laughed so hard that I thought I would be excommunicated on the spot. I'll miss his gentle easygoing spirit, his deep understanding and caring nature, his laughter and his marvelous athletic form. I feel blessed to have had his as a friend. My very deepest sympathy to his beautiful family and to Barbara. We've all lost a little piece of our hearts. Until we meet again.

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Gali Einav posted a condolence

Thursday, October 20, 2011

One really cant talk about Bob in the past tense. For me, he was, and will always be, the most alive, funny, fun loving person I knew and one of my favorite people in the world. Ever since I met Kristen at Columbia in the Fall of 2000 and we became quick friends, so many of my experiences living in NY (and in Israel) were linked to Bob, Kristen and all of you. You have become my family away from home. I have always felt very fortunate for that. I wanted to share with you a few of my favorite memories with Bob. I will never forget the Easter I spent with you at Southold and Bob got me my own Easter card, the first and only one I have (not to mention my first marshmallow peep) Kristens and CCs wedding. Morning of rehearsal dinner. We are all out on the boat. Bob the only one wearing a life vest..Sea a little choppy but everyone is in a good mood. Bob steering with much confidence, which really made me feel better. That evening, at the rehearsal dinner, Bob admitted that there was a severe storm warning that day and it was super dangerous to sail that day. But he didnt want to spoil the fun for the guests He was happy (and relieved) he didnt kill us all Bob giving the funniest speech at the dinner. I dont remember exactly what he said but just that I laughed so hard I cried. Bob had the ability to do that time after time. Bob dancing and lip syncing with the whole family to "Youre the one that I want", from Grease. Welcoming CC into the family. Levi and I were both so happy that Bob came with Kristen to our wedding in Israel. Of course he made a huge ,unforgettable mark on all guests. Leaving for the rehearsal dinner. Entrance to the Brown hotel. Bob leaning on a live Cactus (which he thought was dcor-) I still remember the tears in my eyes from that laugh..( he was in stitches too..) Rehearsal dinner standing up in my parents living room, giving the funniest speech and singing in honor of all the Irish guests.. Bus to Jerusalem after a full day of touring ( Im nearly passed out) Bob with the microphone singing again Last day, right before Kristen and Bob left for the States. We were at Masada. Bob and I took the Cable car down (the others hiked down the mountain) we had 30 minutes to ourselves, sitting at the visitors center. Bob bought a few bags of potato chips and we sat and ate and talked. He told me how he was surprised by Israel, the history at Masada, which he really enjoyed and discovering Tel Aviv as a resort town.. How he was glad he came. So was I. He talked about the whole family. How excited he was for Kristen and CCs move to Boulder. Katies life in LA. Bobby and Sarah busy schedules. Matts next career move. One never knows when there will be a last memory. I have to say that those 30 minutes eating potato chips (and some other junk food ..) were one of my favorite moments of that trip. Thanks Bob for making it so much fun and a real pleasure to be around you. My memories of you are filled with warmth, adventure and laughter, laughter and some more laughter. Sending my love to all of you, Gali

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Laura Forlano posted a condolence

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Thinking of Kristen, CC, Morrissey and all of the Daly siblings, family and friends today. Jose' and I were very sorry to hear about Bob's passing. We were only able to meet Bob a few times but three things come to mind from the trip to Israel for Gali's wedding: Bob's tremendous sense of humor, his love for sports and the pride that he took in his family. Bob was a riot. We were laughing from the minute we left the airport and I knew that we were in for a fun week. Bob wanted to buy a hookah pipe or something like that for a friend. This became a running joke. By the time we got the the hotel, we were jet lagged and in stitches. Bob's passion for sports was clear as he plugged along in the wedding marathon and told us about his knee surgeries and how he couldn't wait to get back to the slopes in the winter with his skiing buddies. He was so happy about Kristen and CC's move to Boulder. Bob gave a great speech at the rehearsal dinner and his pride for Kristen and his family was self-evident. On the way over to Gali's wedding in the van, we were joking about all kinds of medical ailments until we got to the subject of my nut allergy. I'm not sure why this was so funny but something Bob said kicked of a round of hysterics and we were laughing until we cried all the way to the wedding.

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Elisabeth Diana posted a condolence

Thursday, October 20, 2011

I had the luck of getting to know the Daly clan when Bobby and I were on the squash team together in college. We traveled to Boston our freshman year for a competition, where Dr. Daly and the rest of the family came to watch Bobby play. My first reaction was how much alike Dr. Daly and Bobby were - so warm, cheerful and always asking me questions about everything. My second reaction was how they both had the same smile. Years later when he came to San Francisco, Dr. Daly visited Bobby, me and our friends as we were sitting in a park, and Dr. Daly recalled the exact squash games I had played in Boston, how they had gone, etc. It was amazing how great his memory and his interest he took in all of Bobby's friends was. I think everyone lit up around him at all times.

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Alison & Laura posted a condolence

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Uncle Bob's sailing adventure... The day before Kerry Daly was getting married, Uncle Bob offered to take Laura and I sailing. Since we both love boats, we figured why not this will be fun. So we gathered our sweatshirts and hopped in Uncle Bob's car to head to the marina. We get to the dock and the dingy was deflated (should have been sign one to not go sailing), Uncle Bob said 'No problem, i got a pump.' He pumped up the dingy and jumped in and realized it was full of water (sign 2), so he proceeded to bail out all the water and had us all climb in and acting like this is all normal. Uncle Bob proceeds to row, Barbara, Laura and I out to the boat. He tells Barbara to do this that and the other thing on the boat. So we climb on board only to realize we have no clue what Uncle Bob wants us to do (sign 3), so we sit down and wait for him to return with Aunt Eve and her son, Timmy. He climbs on board and tells Laura and I we are in the way and if we could sit on the bow of the boat that would be great. Laura and I listen. So we finally set sail and Laura and I are talking away, not paying attention to what is happening in the back until we hear 'move to the other side, QUICK' Laura and i frantically dive across the boat (sign 4) and resume our conversation as Uncle Bob seemed to have everything under control. We are talking away when we realize that our feet are getting closer and closer to the water and that the whole boat is keeling to one side. We look back and chaos has unleashed, Uncle Bob is frantically yelling directions at Timmy, who by now is in a full on sweat, to try to get the boat back to an upright position so we don't cap size. Laura and i are hanging on for dear life. We finally get to an upright position and Uncle Bob yells at Laura and I to come back to the back and sit down and that we are motoring in. Not much is said, minus wow didn't realize how windy it was, we probably shouldn't be sailing, that was a close one. We get back to the marine, anchor, and Uncle Bob pops open a beer and said, now that was fun.

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George and Jean Meek posted a condolence

Thursday, October 20, 2011

We remember "Dingle" fondly from Pelham Memorial High School, from our classes, especially Spanish. George ran track with him with Coach Dick Lacey. We greatly enjoyed visiting with him at our various reunions of the Class of '53. He lives in all our memories.

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Jonathan Olmsted posted a condolence

Thursday, October 20, 2011

A great guy, talented runner, tennis player, skier, sailor and singer. We will miss his colorful stories and lively humor!

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Howard Harinstein posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

One of my biggest supporters at Park City Hospital and Bridgeport Hospital. A man who knew a great deal about everything and was not afraid to share his opinion and thoughts. Always a positive influence. He will be missed

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Charles J Morgan MD posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Bob was a friend, mentor and colleague. His sense of humor and support as I transitioned into the role of Chairman will be always treasured. My condolences to his family. Charles J Morgan MD Chairman, Dept. of Psychiatry Bridgeport Hospital

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CC Lagator posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Bob would constantly say things that made it impossible to determine whether he meant to be intentionally or unintentionally funny. These often would come in the form of Freudian Slips that provided insight into what was running through his head. Since his diet consisted mainly of meat and potatoes his entire life, you would hear him accidentally (but kind of accurately) refer to things like his monthly 'Boys Night Out' with friends as "Steak Night Out." But the funniest was definitely the time when he was trying to describe a steak restaurant in our neighborhood in NYC and asking if we had ever been there (myself and his vegetarian daughter. I had, she hadn't.) He couldn't remember the name but we finally figured out he meant the 'Old Homestead.' When Kristen asked where he had heard so much about it Bob replied: "I read about it in the Meat section of the New York Times" We were unaware that meat had finally gotten its own section in the New York Times.

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Custis and Kit McNeilly posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Bob, we will miss you so much. esp if we ever get out to Southold again. Love, Mick and Kit McNeilly

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Gwen (Williams) Finnegan posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

To Kristen, Katie, Bobby and Matt - Here are some memories I have of your Dad (that I will NEVER forget). Most of them are, of course, from the four summers that I spent with your family. My first impression of your Dad was that he was so funny. His infectious laugh and that grin (I know you know which one I mean) were some of his trademarks. When he cracked a joke, he made himself laugh. And - he would make fun of himself too. I remember being impressed with how supportive he was of his kids. He was so positive in his support! "That's great, Kristen", "Good Job, Kate!", "Bobby, that's awesome" , "Matt, that was really good"... He had to be one of his kids' biggest cheerleaders! I don't know if you recall or not how afraid of bugs your Mom was. Every time a big bug or spider got in the house she would yell, "Bob, Bob" and no matter where your Dad was in the house he would come and get that bug or spider out of the house. He certainly helped balance your Mom (and I know she helped balance him). Remember that green Cadillac that he loved to drive? When I would go out at night, he always wanted me to drive it. Believe it or not, I often chose to take the station wagon. :) Though I do remember driving the green Cadillac sometimes too. You could hear it coming from a few blocks away... This was a testament to the kind of man he was. Your Dad didn't need to drive a brand new car to feel good about himself. Besides, I think he really did love that car! Your Dad also worked a lot. He worked hard to support his family. He played hard too and was a very good tennis player. And - of course, he loved sailing and spending time in Southhold. Your Dad was a man of faith too. I am sure he found peace in his final days and I'm sure he'll be very welcomed into his eternal life with God. I bet your Mom has been waiting for him.

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Murray Morrison, MD posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Bob was a frindly and beloved colleague. We would often cross paths in the hallways of Bridgeport Hospital I, an orthopaedist and he, a psychiatrist,would laugh or commisurate about hospital politics. He was a real person, easy to talk to and to ask advice from. Pleasant memories..

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William Bauer posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

I last saw Bob at our High School re-union in June 2010 in Mystic,CT. He was the same great person he always had been. Singing may not have been his forte but he was thee best there is at everything else including the game of life. I am proud to have known him. Bill Bauer

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James Caspers posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

When my brother, Stephen, and I first moved to Pelham, the back yard of our house at 526 Pelhamdale touched the Daly's back yard. We were fortunate to be able to know this remarkable family first hand. Knowing them well? Everybody in Pelham knew Bobby AKA "Dingle" well; in fact, most everyone in Pelham knew the entire family pretty well. Bob posesed a unique personal style that genuinely linked him to anyone he encountered. I remember Bob, Sid Janzen with his wife visiting Bill Ryan and me at a restaurant we were working in Hawaii during the early 60s, and the impact Bob on the whole crew was memorable.Someone once said, "pardon my redundancy"; but I have to say, everything Bob Daly did was memorable! Jimmy Caspers

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Pat Allegra posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

I did not know Bob very well but one thing will stay impressed in my mind as his defining memory: his amazing zest for life!He really made the best out of his life on earth and that is an inspiration for all of us.

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Katharine Ugeux Lewis posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Kristen first introduced me to Bob in the late 1990s. Being a fresh-faced immigrant from darkest West Wales, he unsurprisingly left a lasting impression! From the first moment, Bob was so incredibly welcoming, kind and inclusive. To me he was always a wonderful mixture of boundless energy, hilariousness, insight and thought-provoking-ness (I know these are made-up-words but what the heck!). If Bob was ever a character in a book, I thought, the book would be on the NYT's best-seller list! Who else would take us to a Petting Zoo, Sailing and Wine-tasting within the space of a few hours? Who else would make me laugh so much that I can't breathe (whilst eating giant radishes in a Jerusalem souk), and in the next sentence sagely tell us that "family is the most important thing".

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Bob Mahar posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

The Bob I knew Bob was about loving family, friends,life, the outdoors and the sports played there. I remember he would fequently stop on a trail during skiig to revel in the scenery and beauty of the moment. He loved dogs. No matter where, when he came upon one, he always stopped for a chat. Bob was a philospher and loved tweaking friends at gatherings with some philosopical question about life and living it. Bob also was an optimist. No better exercise of this was his sailing trips. He always assumed each would be a perfect sail- only to have some major problem or disaster strike during the trip. Even so on the next he always assumed that would be perfect. I'll miss him, his company and those sails. Bob Mahar

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Little david posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Uncle Bob taught me a very valuable lesson on my first sailing trip to Block Island at age 10: When everyone at the table orders burgers- apparently it is obnoxious to order the Surf & Turf! To this day I steer clear of Surf & Turf at all times. Years later on a ski trip to South Lake Tahoe, I convinced Uncle Bob to try the $9.95 Prime Rib special at the Lakeside Casino restaurant. I had acquired some 2 for 1 coupons, so dinner for 6 people was $30! Uncle Bob said it was the best deal he had ever seen, and I think it made up for my Surf & Turf faux pas. I will always remember the amazing adventures that I shared with Uncle Bob. From sailing trips to ski trips, Uncle Bob led me on many exciting travels that I will never forget. Somehow he was able to convince my parents to let me skip school in 5th grade to ski the last day of Okemos season with Bobby and Matt. My first ever international experience was to Quebec to ski with Uncle Bob. An afternoon in Southold often led to an impromptu excursion to the ocean or up the creek armed with crab nets. Uncle Bobs love for adventure assured us all that if his car pulled into Grammys house, the next day was not going to be dull.

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Courtney Murphy Hewson posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

When with Dr. Daly, you always knew that you were having the best time around. Whether it was running to keep up with him on the streets of New York City (on the way to The Milrose Games), or sailing to Block Island, it was always an adventure. His sense of humour, openness to experience and lack of pretense made everything exciting. As a father and friend, he was confidence and encouragement personified. He was supportive and encouraging of his children. They are amazing and wonderful people in their own ways and he showed them how to live life to its fullest. And no one could wear a straw hat with a sarong better than Dr. Bob.

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Kim Boswell posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

I first met Dr. Daly when I was living with Katie at Stanford. Every memory I have of him brings the biggest smile to my face. His joy of life was so endearing and his sense of humor was infectious. He spoke without a filter and that gave us a glimpse into his open mind and generous heart. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Kim & Joe

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Susan Monk posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

I last saw Dr. Daly in August of this year. As always, it was good to see him. I have known him for 24 years through Park City Partial Hospital and Bridgeport Hospital. His presence will sadly be missed.

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Elisabeth Lella posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Dear Kristen, Katie, Bobby and Matthew, I am so very sorry to hear of your fatherÊ¼s death. Such a thing is a heavy blow at any time, moreso when it comes so suddenly just when the possibility of treatment for his illness looked so hopeful and positive. I wish there was something beyond words that I could do for you in this time of grief. (There never is - unfortunately.) I first knew your mother in September 1959 when we both started Manhattanville and then we were roommates and excellent friends for the rest of our college years. We corresponded and occasionally saw each other over the years. I had the pleasure of meeting your Dad in London in the Spring of 1972 when he and your mother were on their honeymoon. They called us and we had a lovely visit and dinner together. It was, and always has been, a delight to have known him. Although we did not see each other often for some years, whenever we did it was a lovely and easy relationship to continue. He had an ability to pick up the strands of the current time and carry forward in conversation and discussion on just about any subject. We saw him a bit more often once Alexandra met Ralph and there were times to celebrate and get together at one home or another. He calmed the waters of AlexandraÊ¼s wedding day! Ralph was not keen on giving her any sort of relaxation pill and she was keen on having one, so your Dad took things into his own hand and delivered a lovely little potion of something to take the edge off her nerves right to the hotel. We had a lovely and relaxing day thanks to him! Over the years, I was kept abreast of the Daly news - the birth of each of you, the move from Harrisburg to Darien, picking the house in Darien. It was delightful. Each of you was a treasure to your parents. You surely know that. The last time I saw your Dad was at dinner at AlexandraÊ¼s in May 2010 - with Kristen, and the best little granddaughter ever born! I am sure that you know how much he loved her. Matthew was also there, but I suspect that Morrissey Joyce Legator was the main attraction! We had such a lovely visit that night that we vowed to do it each time I went to New York. I am sorry that this will not happen again with Bob present. I hope that each of you in your own way will find some comforting thought of your Dad to lessen the pain of his loss. I am confident that you will know how to comfort each other, too. Even though the loss is forever, I hope that time to heal will also be time to polish the happy memories into gems of everlasting comfort. You will all be in my prayers and my thoughts. My heartfelt sympathies to each of you. Elisabeth

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Dan Barabas posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

One of my most fond memories of Bob's way with words is of catching up with him a couple of summers ago in Southold, when Marty and Eve's dog Oreo came by. He explained to me that Oreo was "some kind of Himalayan Mountain dog." In fact, Oreo is a Portugese Water Dog, but it really made no difference due to the enthusiasm with which he spoke. He was a classic individual, and reading his obituary made me realize what a full life he led, unfortunately ending too soon. RIP.

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bob stanton posted a condolence

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Bob was a great colleague and friend. We shared many laughs together, and had some memorable tennis matches. Through his efforts over the years I have a large practice of Darien pts, all of whom knew Bob and participated in his many sporting activities. He provided great help to me personally and was a wonderful resource for some family issues many years ago. I will always have great memories of his absolute enthusiasm for life every day.

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David Chess posted a condolence

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Although I have not seen Bob for several years, his guidance when I was Chief Resident of Medicine at Bridgeport Hospital in 1984 was exceptional. He taught a sense of balance - kindness, clarity of thought and humor. He was an important mentor and I am thankful for his generosity of heart.

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Nicholas Dainiak, MD, FACP, Chairman, Department of Medicine, Bridgeport Hospital posted a condolence

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Bob was an inspiration to his fellow Chairs at Bridgport Hospital. His sharp wit, keen insight, competitive mind and infectious laughter spurred all to achieve at a higher level. His unique take on events of the day and thoughtful radicalism were a constant source of grist for debate among all who took the time to listen. My condolences to all who shared in his love.

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Kerry Daly Ruggi posted a condolence

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

"What is it, butta?" (butter) "Put a little MUSCLE into it!!" - Uncle Bob, heckling cousin Kevin McGrath (the Honorable) while he tried to scoop enough vanilla ice cream to satisfy what Uncle Bob considered the 'right' amount of a la mode for his pie. (2009-ish, Southold, Aunt Eve's dining room table). Kevin's live impersonation is even better.

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